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Why do guys check out other women?

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A Thinker asked:

Why can't guys control themselves when it comes to looking at other women? They stand there gawking at every "babe" walking by even when they're with their girlfriend or wife!

A Life of the Party answered:

According to Dr. Phil, this goes back to caveman days. And how does Dr. Phil know this? (Other than the fact that he looks like a Cro-Magnon?) Because other women are hot! LOL... Maybe you should look too once in a while!

Anyway, it's hard enough for guys to remember to put the toilet seat down... having to control our eye movements would take more brain power than we possess :)

An Intellectual Guy answered:

Because guys are more visually/sexually oriented. That's why most pornographic stuff is bought by guys. We love looking at women.

Also, it helps that we can separate love from sex such that we don't have to be "in love" to enjoy sex or sexual thoughts.

What sexual position do guys like most?

A Thinker asked:

Do men like women to be on top when having sex? Do you like it better if you're on top?

A Mr. Married Guy answered:

Men like it for many reasons: First, it allows the woman to show him the motion and depth she likes. Second, it's easier for him to maintain the erection. Third (and I hope I say this tastefully), the view is great. Fourth, he knows the woman is into the moment. Fifth, his hands are free to wander over his partner's beautiful body. I could go on and on, but I think you get the gist

An Intellectual Guy answered:

Any position where both people can feel the body's different areas, inside and out, is very erotic. A woman being on top allows me to rest my back and legs and have a great view, and it gives me lots of places to touch and feel. I also like seeing the woman's face as she moves and makes wonderfully orgasmic sounds. Also, I think women like being top, and that makes it fun for me... my impression is that they seem to get the right types of stimulation this way.

We're not exclusive--so why is he jealous?

Booty Call Bingo

A Thinker asked:

A guy and I have been doing booty calls for over a year. The thing is, he gets mad when he calls me and hears other guys in the background. Why does he get so possessive if he claims he doesn't want a relationship?

A Player answered:

Because he's a schmuck, just like me! He wants the best of both worlds -- no commitment from his end, and total commitment from yours. He's probably got a half-dozen numbers to call, and when he's drunk and horny he plays Booty Call Bingo. Tell the chump the game's over.

A Guy Critical answered:

You're deceiving yourself when you say you aren't dating. You are dating, it's just that your dates consist of sex, not dinner and a movie. Also, jealousy and possessiveness aren't dependent on where in the "dating" stage you are. You can't sleep with someone for a year and not develop feelings for them. And even if you can, you'd be silly to expect him not to (in spite of what he may say).

Should I wait for him to say "I love you" for the first time?

It's Primal

A Sport if asked:

Should I say "I love you," or wait for my guy to say it first? And do guys feel they have to clarify if they're "in love," versus loving someone? (i.e. "I'm not IN LOVE with you, but I love you?"). What's the difference, and if he's not 'in love' with me, should I end it?

A Guy Critical answered:

News flash: no guy is going to understand what you're asking beyond the first sentence. We don't analyze our feelings that much. If he says he loves you, he means he loves you in the way that a man loves a woman, not in the way he loves football and beer.

An Intellectual Guy answered:

Men hate making themselves psychologically vulnerable, perhaps in the same way that women hate making themselves physically vulnerable. Revealing feelings of this sort in the schoolyard was a surefire way to get beaten up, and most men get scarred by the schoolyard in one way or another.

But most guys (pigs & players aside) will avoid saying "I love you" unless they're IN love with a girl.

Should you say it first? Well, if the thought is fairly new to you, you might want to wait a while. But if you've felt this way for months, you should move things along by letting him know.

I believe in getting the feelings out there and dealing with them in a straightforward way. Some guys don't want commitment. If that's the case with this guy -- well, frankly, you're better off finding out sooner rather than later.